This is the most common word for those single's ears . You have to move on from your past . You have to live your beautiful present . They've been in your life just to taught you the things you should and shouldn't do in your present . They're not meant to through your future with . They don't deserve you
Theory . Theory . Theory and theory . But the fact is.............. "move on is easy to say but hard to do" truly hard . Have you ever heard this , "the truly pain isn't when the relationship has ended but when there's still a love even it was over" gue gak galau sumpah . Cumaaaa apa ya sedikit share aja kaliya . Gue 'beranjak' kok walaupun sedikit h3h3 gapapa lah ya namanya proses hauauauau .
"how can you move on when your heart still does love him?" duluuuu banget , dan mungkin sampe sekarang saran yg gue dapet buat move on cuma 1 , cari yang baru . Sip , udah dicoba . Hasilnya? Gagal total tal taaaal . Mungkin saat itu guelah cewek terjahat *lebay* T.T gue sempet jadian . Ga bertahan lama gara2 gue cuekin berhari2 . Dibbm gue end chat , disms ga gue bls . Ilang bener2 ilang ga ngasih kabar trs putus gitu aja . Alesannya? Gue ngerasa salah udah nerima cowok itu . Ngerasa salahhhhh bgt jadian sm org yg ga gue sayang . Karma? This is what people called 'a revenge'? Ya , kayanya gue dapet karma . Jujur , sakit banget rasanya . Dan abis itu gue mikir kalo gue emang lebih baik single dulu . Setahun , dua tahun , sampe bener2 lupa baru mutusin buat buka hati lagi .
Intinya , move on ga cuma dengan cari pacar baru . Salah kalo lo mikir gitu , lebih salah lagi kalo orang itu cuma dijadiin pelarian . Karena dengan kaya gitu lo cuma nyakitin org lain dan diri lo sendiri .
1 hal , tanemin dalam diri lo kalo suatu saat bakalan dateng org yg udah digarisin buat lo . Lo cuma butuh kesabaran ekstra . Mungkin lo bakal mikir "sabar? Sampe kapan?" ga munafik kalo gue jg sering mikir kaya gitu , apalagi skrg banyak yg baru jadian kan makin envy aja gue . Tp yah itulah hidup , terkadang lo dipaksa melakukan hal2 yg lo gamau . Tp sebenernya itulah hal2 yg lo butuh .
1 quote yg gue selalu inget buat lovelife gue adalah "fall in love when you're READY not when you're LONELY"
Salam cintakasihsayangcupcupwawaw dr gue \m/ xoxo
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